Why not rent them to try out for a week before you decide?
www.lensprotogo.com I have used in the past and he has both those lenses in stock available to rent.
Mat
Mat, this would have been the best option, but it's something impossible here - there are no photo equipment stores where I live.
However, I made up my mind. The choice is 300mm f/4 IS, and maybe the 1.4x TC (Kenko, I hear it's okay - will have to research a bit for this).
400 is too long and doesn't have IS - this can get irritating, and the 135 and 200 don't have the same "fun factor" like a tele that I can also use for some wildlife

I also recommend to anyone who has the same dilemma, this website:
http://alfieri.smugmug.com/Tech-Talk/Lens-and-Camera-Sample-ImagesThis guy owned them all and he took some really good photos with these lenses. Best photo samples I could find.