Luceluceluce, you are starting to come across as a bit obsessed with this matter.
The solution to the IRS problem for you and me in the UK is to do the paperwork.
That's it.
Easy, if a bit inconvenient.
I have already taken steps to make this happen.
I feel sorry for those who will be deducted tax no matter what they do, but we are not among that number, and cannot do anything to change the law of the USA.
No amount of moaning will change the facts.
It is going to happen.
If you want to know which sites will not be deducting this tax, take a look at their registered addresses, or email them and ask.